my life... right..?

I think I've always tried to look at my life this way, I remember when i was about 7 years old and I told my family i wanted to be a princess (obviously i later realized this was never going to happen) but for a few weeks i had this obsession, i would dress like one constantly and speak with a posh accent as if to make myself more convincing as the princess i so badly wanted to be.

A few weeks later, at an after school club this girl came up and told me that i couldn't be a princess because i wasn't good enough, so i went home to my parents and asked them why.

They then explained the situation in hand and i soon stopped acting like a princess with a wonky tiara.

The point is that when i was thinking about that story it made me think about the way i live my life, the way i change because someone tells me its not going to happen; but its my life so surely i should be the adjudicator of what i do... right?

By no means is this being selfish or self obsessed but after all, you do only get one life so i would have thought the best way to live it is by doing it how you want to with your own style as long as it isn't hurting anyone else. So YOLO right?

(yes i did just say yolo haha)

just thought i'd put that out there.
Lots of Love
Ash

brb thinking

So i have spent a while recently just pondering.

Not even about things that would really effect me but i get into this state, this mindset where i think:

"what even am i"

so after weeks of replaying this horrifying image in my head of my life being screwed because i i may have not tried that hard on something and then realized i had the potential; i have finally stopped thinking, and started doing!

I have to admit, things are working out pretty good surprisingly. I'm enjoying that satisfying feeling of when you finally do something you have wanted to do for ages but "you've been too busy to book the tickets" or "it might not even have been that good anyway" 's.

I already have so much planned for the year that i can't wait to happen but at the same time i'm trying to make sure i enjoy everyday to its potential, because there is that potential and if you want to do something you should do it because chances are, you'll have an amazing time doing it!

Anyway, stay brave, be confident and have fun!

Lots of love
Ash xxx

Basically...welcome!

HI!

So if you've been following my blogger account, you'll know i already have another blog on the go which is very beauty and fashion orientated so i wanted something a bit different where i had more freedom to post about what I wanted.

So here it is! *crowed cheers*

Anyway, away from the awkward silence of no crowed cheering for me in my bedroom as i write this up, here is to basicallyash!

Enjoy
Ash xxx